Introduction

Hey everyone, 

Welcome to my innermost thoughts. I'm Nelly and I've started this blog simply because I have a lot to say, however, my audience is limited. Not limited in number, but limited in their efforts to actively listen, and because of this, life can feel lonely at times. I don't necessarily think that a blog will help with my loneliness, but I do think that writing about my life, just putting it all out on paper, whether someone reads it or not, will at least make me feel like a weight has been lifted. I don't know how effective it'll be and it can just be the blog version of the placebo effect, but I'll give it a try. 

By reading this blog, you'll be exposed to my innermost thoughts, rants and venting sessions about anything and everything life throws at me. It's my intention to be transparent and as detailed as possible, just in case there's someone with similar experiences, needing to know that theyre not alone. I believe that in all things we should always learn, grow and develop, straying further and further away from a stagnant life. Not only do I hope that this blog teaches, I'd love the opportunity for it to allow me to grow and develop as an individual as well.

I've been told to be a quite complexed individual, so I predict some interesting topics and discussions. If you like interesting, then you'll love to be a part of this. Thank you for being a part of my inner thoughts. See you soon.


Love, Nelly


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